September 21, 2010

Lois news.



Sorry to have to share this terrible news.   Just a few weeks out of chemo, little Lois has relapsed.   She will need heavy chemo to get into remission, and then a bone marrow transplant, provided that there is a match.   The doctors currently are giving her a 50% chance of survival.

We are all devastated.



Just 10 days ago I took this picture of sweet Lois on her Daddy's shoulders.   So many local Lois supporters attended an event to honor children with cancer.   Hannah and I were proud to be there, cheering everyone on, celebrating Lois' last treatment.   Lois was happily clapping along with her adoring public.

She's a fighter--that stubborn gene on the 21st chromosome--the one that contains the sequence for obstinacy?--at least, that's my hypothesis--that's the one that's going to bring her through this.  Fortunately she has a triple dose of it.   She will prevail.

Please pray for Lois, her family and her doctors.

September 19, 2010

Egypt!

Ahh, Cairo.  You befuddle me.  So interesting, and yet, so difficult.

Kate and I flew from Amman to Cairo.   We only had three nights/four days to spend, which really isn't enough to fit in much of anything other than the main tourist attractions.    We splurged on our hotel--the one thing Kate wanted was a hotel with a private bathroom (not always included...) and especially a bathroom with a tub.   It was a lovely 5-star hotel right on the Nile (only $120 a night!).   Egypt is very affordable.


(click to enlarge to see the misty Pyramids on the horizon from our balcony!)

On our first night we met up with one of Kate's Peace Corps friends who happened to be finishing up his vacation to Egypt.   We wandered the streets searching for a restaurant.   It was hard work!  Cairo is a city of 17 million people--the streets were packed with cars and the sidewalks full of people.  There are 4.5 million cars in Cairo, most of them fairly old.   There is a haze of pollution that hangs in the air.  We had heard the good reputation of street food in Egypt, but we walked and walked and never found any.  Finally we found a restaurant--an Italian one no less!   Dinner went well, and then we journeyed back to the hotel.   Ahhh....air conditioning!!!

We were glad that Matt was with us.   Two unescorted Western women traveling alone get quite a bit of unwanted attention (from Egyptian men).  It's obvious we are foreigners even though we were wearing modest clothing (still covered from neck to wrist to ankle).  It was not quite as hot as Jordan--perhaps the low 100s, but with high humidity.  

There is a funny phenomenon we discovered.   While walking down the streets it felt like there were random raindrops.  In Jordan it is rare to have air conditioning.  It seems that Cairo has an air conditioner for each room in every building!  If you look closely at this picture (click to enlarge) you can see all the window units...each one dripping condensed water down to the sidewalk.

Much of the architecture is similar to these kinds of buildings.   Clearly, the owners of each apartment built out their balcony in their own style to maximize their space.    After seeing so many white buildings in Jordan, these buildings seemed so imposing.

One of the nice things about Cairo is that there are lush trees and plants.  Jordan has sturdy plants that can survive the arid conditions, but Cairo has the Nile and can support more plant life.

We planned to hit the Pyramids early in the morning. Our guide book said that the ticket offices opened at 7a.m.  We were determined to get there before then so we could get tickets to go inside the Great Pyramid which sell out very quickly.

Our adventurous journey started off with a long cab ride in rush hour traffic.  A road made for three lanes of traffic frequently squeezes in five; interweaving threads of  drivers alternate between furious speeds and complete gridlock.  Cairo is one of the most densely populated cities in the world, and it shows on the roads.

The cab was a well worn older model of car, similar to the one below, but with many many dents--it looked as if the steel had been hand hammered.  I cannot tell you how many times the sideview mirrors clipped the sideview mirrors of adjacent cars!

At one moment of gridlock, our cab was caught off-guard by two men who either:
A) Wanted to get in the cab.
B) Wanted to get the driver.
C) Wanted to steal his money.
D) Wanted to get to us.

The windows were open, as there was no air conditioning.  The doors were not locked.  The men approached, one at each of the front doors, yelling and reaching in.  The cabbie was yelling.  I was yelling. One of the men started punching the driver through the open window.  Just then, the traffic opened up and away we flew, leaving the men to be swallowed by the oncoming traffic.

The driver muttered about for a bit as we went on our way towards Giza.

There are two gates of entry for the Pyramids.  The main gate (which is where we thought we were going) sells general tickets, plus the higher price tickets to take the interior tour of the great pyramid.  However, our driver brought us to the back gate, which only sells regular entry tickets.   He dumped us out, and sped off.  We were left to be harassed by the vendors who wanted to sell us trinkets or rides on their donkeys in the pyramid complex.   Kate has excellent ignoring skills, not making eye contact with anyone and keeping a blank look on her face at all times.

We quickly figured out that our guidebook was incorrect.  The ticket gates open at 8:00 a.m.   And we were at the wrong gate.    We decided that we'd just go with it, and waited the hour.   Tourists gradually appeared, some of them obnoxious Americans (really rude ones), some offensive scantily clad Europeans (spaghetti strap tank tops and short shorts--a good way to let everyone know that you don't respect or understand the native culture and are vulnerable a tourist).

We were first in line, and so, the first people into the complex!    It was lovely.  No crowds.  Not too hot yet.

Look! No people at all!



Can you find Me?
This is the Great Pyramid of Khofu (Cheops).  It covers 13 acres of land!


Here is the Camel Police.  No kidding!


It looked like so much fun that we tried it too!

Of course we had to take cheesy shots!  At least Kate's camel wasn't bellowing in this picture!

We did decide to head over to the Main Gate to see if, by any miracle, there were still tickets for the Great Pyramid (Khufu).  There weren't, but there were still tickets to the "second pyramid", which is the Khafre pyramid (seen above, with some of the marble overlay still attached to the pyramid).    There also was a huge caravan of overloaded tourist buses!

We were excited to go into the second pyramid (as it is called in the complex).    We weren't allowed to take pictures inside, which is fine, because there wasn't anything to see inside.  There was a wooden boardwalk ramp up to the entrance, probably about 20 feet up from the base of the pyramid.  The entrance was about 4 ft square.  It was a long descending passageway--essentially a ramp--we had to hunch over and hold on to the railings as we descended.   It was stuffy and musty, with minimal ventilation, and a bit claustrophobic (Kate thinks that's an understatement). There were low level lights throughout. There were perhaps 10 other tourists in the pyramid.

After about 30 feet of descending, the floor leveled out and we were in an empty narrow room, glad to stand erect.    The room was about 20 feet long.  At the other end there was another ramp/passageway, identical to the one we just descended.  This time we were headed up.   It opened up to a rather dark and cavernous room.  It was empty aside from a large stone sarcophagus-type box.  It all seemed devoid of anything interesting, and was rather disappointing.   

We reversed our direction, this time going against the current of tourists in the opposite direction.   Down one ramp and then up the other one to exit.  I think we had high expectations, but of course, by the time archeologists "discovered" the pyramids, all had been looted, so the series of hot and humid tunnels and rooms were empty to them too.  

We found the pyramids to be much more interesting on the outside than the inside, but it was nice to see this for ourselves!

We splurged on a private car back to the hotel.  It had air conditioning!  And a patient driver--the traffic was worse than before, and it took over an hour to get us to our hotel.  Of course, we had negotiated the fare before we got in the car, but he definitely earned his large tip!

Our heavenly hotel beds were calling for naps, so we indulged them!   Later we went for a walk, but had our meals at the hotel.

The next day we went to the Egyptian Museum. Again, no pictures allowed inside.
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It was fascinating--huge--and overwhelming.  They are in the process of building a new museum since the current museum only can display a fraction of the treasures that are held there.   The mummy room (an extra $20) was amazing. There were 20 mummies on display--including Ramses.  It was amazing to see the detail that was preserved through mummification.  Ramses still had his eyelashes!

(Photo of a photo)

King Tut's exhibit was wonderful as well--beautiful and amazing in craftsmanship.  I tell ya, that was one rich teenaged king!     Below is one of the "organ" coffins.  The organs were removed from the body and preserved/mummified separately in their own coffins.

(photo of a postcard)

In another exhibit in the museum we were surprised to find mummies of various animals--cats, dogs, falcons, and even baboons! All of these were still wrapped in their linen cloths.  Many of them were mummified because they were a favorite pet, but some were mummified as rituals and offerings.  

Hours at the museum wore us out, so we again headed to the respite of our hotel.


Later that day we took a private "cruise" on the Nile!


  
In the world of Arab architecture, green glass is very popular-green is the color of Islam. All the mosques we saw had some sort of green glass.  This very upscale home is decked out in green too!

The Nile is very polluted.  We saw trash floating everywhere, and yet we saw boys playing and swimming in the water. They definitely were having fun, jumping in off of high walls, splashing each other.   In Jordan, nobody knows how to swim (there is so little water), so it was fun to see kids being kids.

In the evening we had a delicious room-service meal.  We planned to watch a movie on the one English channel at the hotel (Sex in the City--an odd choice for a conservative country-subtitled in Arabic.   It was the only thing on).    Before dinner, we had the foresight to buy a snack to eat during the movie.



You might recognize the packaging as Lay's Potato Chips.   After our exciting Chicken flavored chips in Jordan, we figured that cheese flavor couldn't be all that bad.  See that inviting picture of swiss cheese?   

False advertising.   When we opened the bag, an unusual smell arose.   Hesitantly, Kate tried one.  Ewww!   So I tried one.   They were bleu cheese flavored chips!  Horrible!! 

The next day Kate flew back to Jordan in the afternoon, but my flight didn't leave until midnight.   It was a long day(s) of travel, filled with despondent boredom and harassment.    I could tell you many interesting adventures, including a lost family from Ethiopia, a street urchin who lives in the airport, and an easily offended bathroom attendant.  However, I've already made this post too long and too late, and I applaud you for making it through the entire thing!  

It was a wonderful trip-I loved seeing Kate where she lives, who her friends and compatriots are, and understanding more of the Mideast.  It was difficult to say goodbye to Kate, and to Jordan.  I feel close to the country that hosts Kate, even if it is a challenging place to live.  But I find that I miss her more now than I did before.

September 11, 2010

The Birthday Kate

Hannah made a cake for you!   (You're not missing much--it's made out of magnetic foam tiles.)



It's difficult to celebrate a birthday when you're so far away from home.   We're hoping you're enjoying your packages--and perhaps, a lovely camel beverage.  We miss you Kate!!  Twenty-two and you're on the other side of the world!  


 We love you, and we're so proud of you.

August 30, 2010

Two years!

And once again I come in just under the deadline!   I thought my blogiversary was tomorrow.  But no, it's today!

Sharing our lives, and in return, gaining friends around the world is an amazing bargain--I definitely get the better end of the deal!  It has been quite a bit of fun getting to know you.  Some of you have been here for a long time, and others are new to the Shenanigans world.   I know many of you are lurkers or occasional visitors.  I'm grateful to each of you who takes time to read a little something here.

My goal for blogging is two-fold:

1. To share some things in my life that might be of use to someone else--whether that is tangible, concrete help, or just a vague shift in expectations.
2. To cover up the fact that I will never ever make a scrapbook.

Since I'm feeling a bit nostalgic, I'm re-posting a photo montage I posted almost two years ago.   I haven't written much about Hannah's early years.   How sick she was when she was born, how we had to wait years for her to be a surgical candidate due to pulmonary hypertension, waiting to find out if she ever would have her life-saving heart repair.   It was a worrisome time.   But at the same time, Hannah showed us that she could thrive while she was with us.  She brought us out of our worry--away from our what-ifs--and into the moment.  Her enthusiasm for living never faltered.


Tonight, at bedtime, a decade after that last picture was taken, Hannah was imagining all the things that she'd like to glow in the dark:  a necklace, a cup (on her bedside table), her pillow, a book, eyebrows (so she could read in the dark), her teddy bear, and a whole slew of silly things, getting more giggly as she came up with each idea.

She completed the list with the best idea yet:  a glow in the dark light bulb.   We both laughed so hard!

I love that she can play with words and ideas, that she has a sense of humor, that she is an interesting person.  And I'm really glad that I can share her with you.

August 27, 2010

Walk Like an Egyptian

I'm savoring the last few days of summer here.   The raspberries are getting their second wind.  Apparently it rained a lot while I was gone.   Last fall I picked the last berry of the season on November 1st!  Maybe threads of summer will hang on that long again this year.


Hannah had a GREAT time at camp!   It was a perfect first camp--they had one-on-one counselors and all the campers had Down syndrome.    When I asked her who was her best friend at camp she said "Stephanie!!" (counselor).  Stephanie is a Special Education major at UNC Charlotte.   It was a good experience for both of them!



Guess who had the bunk next to Hannah?

Silly Emma  from Emma's Gifts!

Hannah did ceramics, stained glass painting, swimming (and even was brave enough to do the huge water slide into the lake!).   She won the award for Best Comedian--she told some jokes at the Talent Show!  Her cabin also won the scavenger hunt (though she calls it The Avenger Hunt!).    There was a Hollywood themed dance one night, so the girls got gussied up with nail polish and lip gloss and plenty of glitter.  

Hollywood Walk of Fame Star!

She was glad to see me when it was time to go home, but she wasn't worn out and, best of all, she looked good--no typical camp filth, bug bites or sunburn! (Yes, Hannah is several inches taller than Stephanie!)


Somewhere in the middle of camp James helped Chris pack up and dropped him off for his second year at William and Mary.   He's got a science/math heavy load this semester with two upper level chemistry courses, advanced calculus, and two computer science courses.  And he's sitting in Freshman Biology as well since it's been almost 4 years since he took it.  He needs to review the coursework since he'll be taking the MCATs this coming spring.  To balance things out, he's also taking voice lessons!



Hannah has been asking to see him, so we'll probably go visit next week sometime.

Within a couple of hours of getting home from camp, my parents came to stay for a few days!   They had been traveling up the Eastern seaboard and were on their way home to South Carolina.  We all were a bit worn out, so we took it easy--no museums, no painting projects, no adventures.  Perfect.



So...now would be a good time to start posting about Egypt...that was my intent, obviously.  But now it's late and I think I'll do what I do best: procrastinate.

I will leave you a little appetizer:

Giddyup!  Yee haw!!!!

August 17, 2010

Jordan and Egypt

I've been home for nearly a week and am finally catching up with everything.  Thanks for your patience!

My trip was really interesting.  It was great having Kate be my tour guide and interpreter.  Arabic is one of the most difficult languages, usually taking seven years to master.    So she's 10 months in, and can easily get her way around the country, haggling with shopkeepers and cab drivers, and conversing with friends and students.  She is far from being fluent (she says), but I couldn't tell the difference ;-)

Our first few days were spent in Amman.  We visited with other Peace Corps volunteers, and went shopping (Jordan has a couple of malls--Starbucks is an exceptional treat for Kate!).

We headed out to her village where we spent time with local families who have connected with Kate.  It was very interesting to share meals with the families and spend time getting to know them.   It was extremely hot during my stay in Jordan, so it was always a treat to visit with families in the cooler evenings.   It is impolite to take pictures of people, so I only have pictures of places and things.

Jordan is the 4th driest country in the world.  There seems to be quite a surplus of rocks!

Kate lives in the small portion of Jordan that is slightly mountainous.  Many of the hills have been roughly terraced to hold on to as much soil as possible.   The native trees are primarily scrub evergreens, but nearly every house has olive, almond, pomegranate and fig trees.


Cactus is also planted--we were lucky that most of the fruit trees were ripening!  Cactus fruit was my favorite new food on the trip.




 Kate's landlord also has a small grape arbor, growing green grapes similar to what we can get at the grocery store.   The grapes have to be covered with bags to prevent the bees from eating them.


The main town near Kate's village is Ajloun.   It has its own castle, which was built in 1184 to defend against the Crusaders.   It was pretty cool--literally and figuratively!





 



Later in the week we took 4 buses (or maybe it was 5) to get to the area where Kate lived during her language training last year.   The family with whom she stayed is Bedouin.   They are warm and welcoming.   It was the highlight of my trip to have spent the night in their home.   When we arrived, there were three women working on pulling leaves off of some kind of plant stalk.  I never did find out what it was called, but Kate and I sat down and started pulling leaves along with them.   Apparently they dry the leaves and use them throughout the year to make a special soup (which is not all that tasty according to some people).

This is a large table cloth that is covered with the leaves.   The seating cushions or farshas are against the wall to make room for the drying leaves.


This is an example of a typical living room.   The cushions are used for sitting.  Women must sit with their legs underneath them, or out to the side.  The pillows are used as arm rests, especially if the legs are out to the side.   If a woman would like to stretch her legs out in front, she must have a blanket to cover her legs. (BTW, it is really hot to have a blanket over half of your body when you're already wearing long sleeves and long pants and it's 120 degrees.  Just sayin'.)


What was most unusual about this home was that only women lived there.  The elderly father had passed away a few years ago, leaving the house to his widow and his two youngest unmarried daughters.   The women were very at ease and not preoccupied with formalities--since there were no men present, the seating/blanket protocol was relaxed.

These same cushions became our beds for the evening, with home-sewn patchwork quilts to keep the night's chill at bay.

We re-traced our journey back to Kate's house, where her principal's family invited us to go down to the "valley".   This is the area very close to Israel and near the Jordan River.   Unfortunately, the sun set before we were able to set off in their (very) minivan.  So we drove around in the dark for a while, slightly off-roading where the gravel road was worn out.   We looked for a falafel restaurant, but, not finding one, our hosts provided snacks from one of the many small shops along the way.



Yep, those are NICE natural potato chips.   Chicken flavored!   Mmmm good.

They really weren't quite as scary as I anticipated--what's a little bit of bouillon powder and MSG sprinkled on a salty potato chip?

I later learned, in Egypt, that there are far worse potato chips in existence!

It will likely be another week before you get to hear about that half of my adventures with Kate...I am off to North Carolina to bring Hannah to camp.  This is her first overnight camp and she is very excited about it!  I will be staying in NC because while I am a stoic mom, I'm really not all that comfortable being 5+ hours away from her in case she isn't as brave as she thought she was.  She's packed (and I'm not), and we leave in the morning!

August 14, 2010

Nan Talk

We interrupt this week's jet lag exhaustion with two short tales.

1. While driving around doing errands this afternoon, Hannah spied a convertible.  She said, "Hey Mom!  Look at that car!  It's just like the one I drove when I played The Game of Life!"



2. Post dinner, talking about what game to play this evening:

H: I don't want to play cards, I want to play a board game.
Me:  Do you know which one you want to play?
  
silence.

H:    I want to play a climbing game.
Me:  A climbing game?  I thought you wanted to play a board game.
H:  Yes.  I want to play a board game that I can climb.........and slide. Do you know what it's called?  It's Chutes and Ladders!!!!