Showing posts with label independence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label independence. Show all posts

August 30, 2012

Homeschooling=independence

So, a month or so ago a friend of mine with younger children asked me about how we actually homeschool.  She wanted to know a little bit about curricula, but more about how I actually "teach".

Well, I rarely feel like I teach.  Yes, I choose workbooks and math curricula, and choose what subjects I think Hannah should study through the year (she loves geography, reading and math, and anything that involves games--in fact she's playing the Game of Life right now with Kate and working on counting BIG money).  But I don't spend that much time teaching.  It's more like coaching.  Or cooking.  A little bit of this and a little bit of that.  I lay out a healthy menu of academic options and we choose what "tastes" the best.   Our long term goal for our children is for them to be independent learners.  We don't want to fill them up with facts, but rather make sure they have the skills to learn what they need or want to know.

We describe our homeschool as "very relaxed".  We usually "do" formal sit-down-at-the-table for a couple/three hours a few times a week.  Hannah needs a bit more supervision with her work than her siblings did.  But that doesn't mean that I don't give her enough space and time to figure things out on her own.    When Kate was in college she had to give a "response paper" after a discussion in class.   Here's a bit of her take on education:

As I mentioned in class, I think education should be towards the goal of self-reliance and self-teaching. I think it is important that young adults are able to read instructions, directions, etc., and complete tasks independently, without having to have it explained to them. I feel that the public school system in this country falls short of that goal: every little nuance of a problem is explained, sometimes several times over, which leads children to believe that they require help to do something. In my family, no one is offered help with schoolwork, because, like the old saying “God helps those who help themselves,” if we did not try, we would not be assisted. Only after we had exhausted all other possible options (reading back in the textbook, trying a new way) would our parents show us what was wrong-- and it usually never came to that.


So, while I was chatting with my friend about "how" our family home schools, I received a text from Kate.   She was home with Hannah, who offered to teach Kate how to make Jello.

Hannah:  Kate, I can teach you how to make Jello.  It's really easy.

Kate: How do you make it?

Hannah:   Here.  Read the instructions.


Ha!  A perfect example of our school philosophy!


P.S.  We'll be easing in to 8th Grade some time next week.  Don't think that we're going to be doing 8th grade work...Hannah's skills range from 2nd-6th grade.  She's making progress, and that's all that matters to us.  She'll get where she needs to be when she's finished.

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An aside for those who are curious about homeschooling:


Every state has their own compulsory school attendance laws.  Here in Virginia there are two paths of homeschooling.  The usual track requires submission of curricula and an end of year assessment (testing or evaluation by a certified teacher).  Homeschooled children are able to receive speech therapy from their neighborhood school if they need it.  In our county all homeschoolers are allowed to take up to three courses at their local public school if they so choose (geometry, choir, German, etc).  This is fairly unusual for Virginia.  It's a nice option for families who want to have a foot in the public school at the same time as they teach the bulk of the academics at home.  It's a pretty relaxed situation here in our town.

The road less taken is Religious Exemption (RE), which is what we do.  The "Religious" part doesn't necessarily mean just Judeo-Christian religions--there are pagan and Native American families who believe that the parents have the authority are to teach their children.  We are a Christian family, and we fall on the far religious left.  Using the Religious Exemption law we are not required to submit any information about our children.  We are not required to test our children or have any kind of evaluation.  By choosing the RE law we cannot receive any support services through the county school system.   That's fine with us.  We love the freedom we have with schooling under the RE law.  No testing, no deadlines, no interference.

If you have questions, email me  hannahshenanigans@gmail.com

November 17, 2009

On Her Own...

Yesterday Hannah had her 6 month check-up at our family dentist. She did fine, as usual (we spent several years brainwashing her when she was little, so she really likes the dentist now). The dentist did find a cavity though. Hannah has deep fissures in her back teeth, and they are perfect places for cavities to grow. All of her molars have sealants, but her bicuspids don't. This cavity was in her right top bicuspid.

On our way home we talked about what a cavity is, how it grows and how to remove it. I told her about the shot, and the noises she'd hear from the tools the doctor would use, and how they'd feel in her mouth.

So this morning we went back for the filling (and getting sealants on her 12-year molars). We were in the waiting room for a bit, then the assistant came to get Hannah. I have always gone with her in the past, but lately I've given her the option of going alone. Today she decided to go by herself!

I sat in the waiting room eavesdropping (it's a small office). I heard her chatting about Narnia, so I knew she was comfortable (I've been reading The Magician's Nephew to her). Then all was quiet. So I went to take a peek. She was just getting her shot. I couldn't see her head, but her hands were relaxed and calm (I always have white knuckles when I get dental shots or drilling). She remained calm through the entire procedure! The staff could barely believe it (me too!). She came out happy, without any stress at all.

My favorite part was when we were driving home. She was being silly--her mouth felt funny from the numbing medicine. She said, "Hey! DumDum! Give me some Numb Numb!!!" (If you've never seen the movie Night at the Museum, this won't make sense.)

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Soon after we got home, Kate called from Jordan! Yay! She was traveling near Petra over the weekend, so she couldn't call until today. She sounded great! She is tiring of pita and hummus. And she will be switching host families. Her new family does not have hot water...hmmm. We'll see how that works out! But she only has a month left of training.

Tomorrow her group will be meeting the US Ambassador. She is excited about that. I told her that if the Ambassador isn't prompt enough she should say, "If this is a consular building, then WHERE is the Ambassador???" (a la Star Wars).

She feels like she's been away for six months, but it's been just less than a month!

She has had the opportunity to meet with other Peace Corps Volunteers who have been in Jordan for a year or more. This weekend she went to visit a volunteer who helps young adult women with disabilities with job training. They are sewing and knitting. Kate commissioned a knitted hat for Hannah, made by a woman with Down syndrome!

Last week she got to go to a field day to meet some students in another area of Jordan--she was happy to be with her peeps!


I'm sure once she gets through her training she is going to have so much fun with her students!